Love ...........
Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you.
When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.
Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face.
In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.
You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life."
— Bob Marley
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
~ Love ~
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~ Relationships ~
Relationships ............
"When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter."
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Saturday, June 11, 2011
~ Secret ~
Stare at your picture
Can’t help but to wonder
and think about you
Love your smile
Too afraid to tell you
Because then you might think differently
Love the look in your eyes
that I can’t seem to explain
Sometime I tend to let it drive me insane
Or get to the point where it brings me pain
You are my secret
I do adore you
But you’ll remain a secret
Because it wouldn’t be a secret
if I told you
So still, a secret you’ll remain
Even though it brings me heartache and pain
The same pain lets me know that I’m still sane
But a secret
comes a secret pain.
Posted by fzia at 11:17 AM 0 comments
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~ Miscommunication ~
Miscommunication .........
Miscommunication can change a person’s path.
It can alter your opinion, even fill you with wrath.
Always try to eliminate it before you place the blame,
when heated words are said nothing remains the same.
It leads to misunderstanding and breach of trust.
to express ourselves more accurately is definitely a must.
To lose through Miscommunication is a terrible loss,
we may lose something dear to us and forever bear a cross.
We could be the bearer and not even know,
it’s important to lead by example for you reap what you sow.
Have courage to confront, to clear the air.
To leave things unsaid leaves a terrible tear.
Posted by fzia at 10:34 AM 0 comments
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