~ When You Truly In Love .....~

When You Truly In Love .....

" True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be."


- they are very careful of their words, coz the 'harsh' words might give a great
impact to their mates.

- they control their anger, when the other displeases them.
We are all human, and all humans feel anger periodically,
but we only express our anger in destructive ways, when we are counting on someone else to meet our needs.


- they are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavour to meet them even when they do not feel like doing it.


- Men and women may be equal in value but different by nature. People who truly are in love give their mates "space" to develop their potential and find their fulfillment in life.


- Love does not brag. People who are truly in love refrain from rehearsing their good traits just to show off. Bragging in a relationship often is really defensiveness.


- do not insist that their way is best and demand that their mates give in to them.


- being considerate of each other's feelings and courteous in their actions toward one another. Sadly, sarcasm is a way of life for some couples. They ridicule each other, belittle each other and trade jibes with a fury. They may say it is all in fun, but it leaves wounds that will someday become festering sores.


- they will look out for their mate's best interests as much as their own. Those in love should be concerned not only about their own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well.


- they do not take pleasure in their mate's disappointments or failures.


- treat their mates with absolute trust. Some husbands and wives torment themselves with groundless suspicions. If you look for trouble you will find it every time.


- look forward to their relationship growing more meaningful and precious. They have hope, which is an attitude that happily anticipates the good. It isn't being blind and denying that there are problems, but it does look beyond the problems. People who truly love each other do not allow their problems to rob them of their happiness.


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If you really love someone .........



If you really love someone,..
Than make them feel so good,..
Share all your feelings, good or bad,...
And never hide anything from the truth

If you really love someone,..
Show them that you care,..

If you really love someone,..
Accept them as they are
And let them know that you will be
Behind them near or far

If you really love someone,..
Than tell them
Because tomorrow is a gift;
And you may not have the chance to say,
I love you anyway



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